John Gottman, the marriage expert, explains that we quickly “thin slice” information reliably only after we ground such snap reactions in “thick sliced” long-term study. John Gottman, the marriage ...

怎样的婚姻才能长久？ 如果说婚前婚后的爱情已经不同，那用怎样的方式去表达爱、感受爱，才能永远幸福？ —— 对这两个问题的回答，可以很鸡汤，但心理学家绝对不会走这条路。 爱情和婚姻心理专家 John Gottman 教授，是当之无愧的婚姻研究领军人物。

Scientists have found that although we are prone to snap overreactions, if we take a moment and think about how we are likely to react, we can reduce or even eliminate the negative effects of our ...